Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Tick…Tock…Tick…Tock
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
Approaching the 3-0
Monday, August 15, 2011
So Many Thoughts...
Today I have so many topics racing through my head that I feel as if I could write for hours about them. These topics include our education system (including college), economy, travel, traditions, and family…just to name a few. I can’t seem to fully collect my thoughts and focus in on one yet so until then I won’t express my thoughts. By my next post I will definitely delve into one of the many things currently in my thoughts.
Until then…here are a few pictures from my family reunion which was in Charleston, SC a few weekends ago. I spoke about it here. I’ll post more to my Facebook page.
Fred
Monday, August 1, 2011
Family Reunion
I’m feeling quite good after attending the Drakeford, Gaskin, Kirkland family reunion this weekend in Charleston, SC. I had an amazing time conversing with family members that I haven’t seen in almost 10 years and it was great to see my 95 year old great aunt moving around as if she was at least 20 years younger.
We took a tour of Drayton Hall Plantation on Saturday which was extremely mind opening. The guides explained the lives of the enslaved Africans at Drayton Hall and also some of the history of the plantation. I learned that my ancestors (on the Kirkland side) originated from Kershaw County South Carolina and the one of the owners of my ancestors was a man by the name of Daniel Kirkland who’s father John Kirkland was born in Scotland in the 1750s. I also learned about the Gullah people who were the African Americans who lived in the Lowcountry and that night we had some Gullah cuisine which was phenomenal.
It was amazing to look at my family tree and see the connection that I have to the men and woman of my family who lived during the slavery era of the United States. The slavery era seems so long ago but I’m only about 5 generations separated from it. That’s mind blowing to me to say the least.
The little that I learned this weekend about my ancestors was amazing and definitely motivated me to learn even more about them. Overall, I had a great time this weekend with family and friends, and I definitely am looking forward to spending more time with them in the future.
Fred
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
"Huh!"
I had a BLAST this past weekend in South Carolina and Georgia. It was good to kick it with old friends and meet some new ones. We stayed in Beaufort, SC with friends and they were great host for the weekend. I had some amazing seafood at a restaurant in Beaufort, SC (actually Port Royal, SC) 11th Street Dockside, hung out for a night in Savannah, GA on river street, and had plenty of laughs. I will be heading back again. Shot out to Mario and Ashley for being such great host, T Redd for the surprise of the weekend LOL., and little Adriana for being my new homie.
The title is an inside joke from the weekend ;)
Monday, June 7, 2010
Family, Friends, Life, Living...
At the graduation some of the speakers mentioned quotes that resonated in me and affirmed a lot of feelings and thoughts I have about my life. Striving for greatest and being different, in my life, is something that I have been working towards these past years, and continuing to balance my life also. Having a good balance between business and pleasure is important to me, and I feel the best when I am balanced between the two.
Life isn’t easy. Relationships aren’t easy. Learning isn’t easy. Nothing in life worth having or achieving is easy. But, I’m up for any challenged that I am faced with in my life and I will support those important to me in their challenges also.
Another step is coming and my life and I will continue to take one step at a time. This adjustment will not be easy for me, but I will stay focused on my goals in order to make the adjustments easier.
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Thursday, May 27, 2010
Mind bleed...
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Putting things in perspective…
Fred
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Sunday, January 3, 2010
The Crying Rose.

After yesterday, I have A LOT more respect for people who get tattoos. When Bryant was coloring in my Crying Rose I felt like I was going to cry sometimes LOL….Not really but it REALLY hurt. But I am so happy with the finished piece. Bryant at Fat Ink tattoo is the MAN!!! Very great artist and I appreciate him taking my idea of a Crying Rose dedicated to my Grandparents and turning it into this finished piece. It’s amazing to me how some people have that artistic eye and can see things that other people can’t even image. This tattoo was a vision of mine almost 3 years ago and it’s amazing for me to finally see it become a reality.
Posted at http://fk3.blogspot.com/
Friday, December 25, 2009
I Love You Granny
On another note, the tattoo is healing and peeling all over. But this is part of the process, so we’ll see how long this last. But it’s all worth and I know its going to look sick once its done and all healed up.
Monday, December 21, 2009
You helped me be who I am...

I had my first sitting of my first tattoo today. Took about 4 hours, didn't hurt too bad. I was mostly smiling the whole time because this is something that I have wanted going on three years now. These three people mean the world to me and they all played a role in molding me into the man that I am today. Without them, I'm not sure where I would be in my life. This is a small gesture to remind myself of these two amazing woman and a great man. I love you all with all my heart and I hope that I inspire someone else the way that you all have inspired me.
The second sitting is in two weeks and it will look even better once the color is in.
It is called...Crying Rose
Fred
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Living life baby....
Anyway, I probably will be seeing snow when I visit the family in Michigan in a few weeks. Not looking forward to the snow, but looking forward to seeing them and a other people ;-)
Besides that…its life. The good, the bad, the sad, the happy. Life is what we make it. Be happy in the moment and enjoy the time we are giving.
I’m living therefore I am happy,
Fred
Friday, November 14, 2008
How you feel and whats real....
I have so many things on my mind as I sit here after a long day of working from home and catching up on being behind on work. So many thoughts, so many ideas. Then while I was watching a movie I heard a quote that really made me think (even more lol). “You need to decide between what you feel and what is real”. I really liked how this was put and it made a lot sense to me. This is not far from my last post where I was talking about syncing my inner self with my outer self. Sometimes (probably a lot of times) our feelings can mislead us. Feelings are such a reactive thing and you need to think things through in order to move forward and understand things that are going on in your life and your surroundings. I have met many people in my life and the most successful people tend to be the ones who think before they act. Now I’m not talking success as in being wealthy or having material things. I’m talking about being happy in your life and being more than just that average person a lot people except being. The reactive people that I have met in my life tend to stay stagnant and sometimes I don’t think they understand why they find themselves in the same situations day in and day out.
I have a hard time keeping my feelings in control when it comes to some situations and I focus on getting better at that everyday. I don’t want to be a person that just reacts but a lot of times it is extremely difficult. I will continue to push myself to stop, think, and understand reality. If I can do that, I know that I will reach a better understanding about my life and the people I choose to have in it.
On another note….I have been living in Lansing almost 6 months and it has been an interesting time. My life is much different here than it was in Virginia. I love being able to go to all my brothers events, help them study for school and do homework, go to the movies with them, see my mom and dad, and be away from the busy city. But I can honestly say that when I was considering the move back, I didn’t think it would be like this. I find many days where I don’t leave the house because I work from home and I work a long day. Other days I may be gone for an hour, maybe two, and then I back to house. The “friends” that I had here aren’t interested in the same things that I am and it has been difficult hanging out with them because I don’t want to fall back into the same habits that I had before I left Lansing. I don’t enjoy going out to the bar 2-3 times a week and hanging around young minded (not all of them are) college students, and I’m not interested in going to other bars in Lansing because it is the same people I have seen my whole life and most of them aren’t doing anything with their lives. In DC it was nice being around young professionals. That doesn’t seam to exist here in Lansing.
I’m not upset that I moved back, because if I didn’t try it, I might have regretted it in the future. But no matter where I live, I will always be there for my brothers and my family. My brothers were the biggest motivation to move back and I love them dearly. But I might have to get more creative and figure out another way to be there for them and not be in Lansing. This will take some thought…
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Good Ol' Lansing Michigan...
On another note, I think I like the idea of posting more random things in my blog. So be on the lookout. Until then...
Peace...